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Lesson 1 of 6 September 9, 2026

Loving Strangers

1 Peter 4:9; Romans 12:9-13; Hebrews 13:1-2; Luke 14:12-14

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Overview

Establishing a biblical definition is an important first step toward growing in hospitality. The practice is rooted in developing a high view of all humanity, especially people outside our circles, so that we might practice kindness toward them.

We cannot have a high view of God and a low view of people. Without the proper view of humanity, we will be tempted to practice hostility instead of hospitality.

Hospitality is a sacrificial practice that requires us to put the needs of others before ourselves, even when it costs.

Key ideas

  • The term hospitality comes from the Greek word philoxenos, which means loving strangers.
  • Hospitality in the Bible was focused on strangers.
  • Hospitality in our world often focuses on our circles.
  • Hospitality is the practice of reflecting God's loving-kindness.

Lesson 1 activity

Hospitality assessment

Score what is normally true, not what you intend. Your answers stay private and are saved only on this device.

Our Church

Think about what a guest would normally experience at David's Temple during the last 90 days.

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1. Our church notices, greets, helps, and includes guests - not only through assigned greeters.
2. Our church makes room for people outside our usual circles, including those who cannot repay or benefit us.
3. Our church gives time, attention, and practical help without complaining, even when hospitality is inconvenient.
Answer all three questions to see your result.

My Practice

Think about your normal treatment of guests and strangers during the last 30 days.

Score

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1. I notice and approach guests and strangers with dignity, warmth, and genuine interest.
2. I make room in conversations, meals, and relationships for people outside my circle, including those who cannot repay me.
3. I give time, attention, or practical help without grumbling, even when hospitality costs me comfort or convenience.
Answer all three questions to see your result.

Studying the text

  1. 1Who does the writer of Hebrews say we could be entertaining when we entertain strangers?
  2. 2What attitude should we avoid while showing hospitality, according to 1 Peter?
  3. 3In Luke 14, whom does Jesus say we should invite to our feasts and celebrations?
  4. 4What are the marks of a true Christian in Romans 12:9-13?

Discussion

How does a high view of every person change the way we notice and welcome guests?

Where are we most tempted to choose the comfort of our circle over the needs of a stranger?

What might hospitality cost us in time, attention, comfort, or convenience?

Personal preparation

Reflection & notes

Take a moment with each question before class. Your responses stay private and are saved only on this device.

Closing prayer

Lord, help me to view humanity through the lens of the Bible. Help me to understand others as beings created in your image. Give me the humility to relate to those I don't understand. Help me to empathize with those I don't agree with. Teach me how to be kind to all. Amen.

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